Cooking by Feeling: Honoring Black Culture Through Food

People learn to express love in a variety of ways. We identify what’s available to give, what we can share, and what will be enjoyed. From hugs to extravagant gifts, we find our love languages and become more fluent as we practice speaking and living them.

Food is a universal love language, and in the Black community, this love runs deep. It comes from a desire to nourish others, spend time together, maintain traditions, and stay within our means.

Although we experience the effects of racial inequality, from loss of life to living in food deserts, one thing that we all know how to do is make sure everyone gets fed.

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Food as an expression of culture

Food is not only a form of love but also a way of building and protecting culture.

Migrant people retain knowledge of their homelands, bringing different names for ingredients and traditional preparation methods. Black parents ensure that their children and grandchildren learn those names and the necessary skills to transform them into their favorite dishes.

Thereby, food becomes a source of memory.

Black-eyed peas on New Year’s Day call prosperity to the household, securing their position on the menu every year. Everyone who eats from that pot remembers previous years, who made the black-eyed peas, and what the elders had to say about it.

Similarly, jerk chicken calls to mind the last visit to Jamaica when proper spices and seasonings were procured and our great-aunt shared the secret to the best potato salad.

As children, we are called into the kitchen to help make dinner.

Take the chicken out of the freezer before Mom gets home. Peel potatoes for the potato salad. Grate the cheese for macaroni pie. Wash the rice. Boil the eggs. Shred the cabbage. Shell the peas. Dice the onions. Mince the meat.

Elders ensure that we learn to do the prep work. As we get older, our responsibilities increase.

Go to the butcher and get the right cuts of meat. Clean the chicken. Watch the pot. Keep stirring, don’t stop.

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No recipe but love

We spend so much time in the kitchen and around the dining table that the memories are endless. When we sit down for meals on special occasions, there’s no telling which ones will come to the surface for us or the other people there.

We always know which dishes we need to cook for every holiday and occasion. What the new generation needs help with, however, is the process.

How is it possible that we spend so much time helping our elders with food preparation without learning the specific recipes?

First of all, there are no recipes. Even if someone has scribbled one down at the insistence of another relative, it’s an approximation. No piece of paper can tell you how to turn food into love.

Our grandmothers tell us to add a handful of cheese. They tell us to cook the pasta until it’s halfway done, then leave it in the water for a few minutes — but not too long! They warn us not to rinse after we drain. They give us measurements in handfuls, but our hands are not their hands. They suggest seasoning in sprinkles, dashes, coins, and “just enough.”

We want, so badly, for them to speak to us in cups and tablespoons.

They hear our desperation when we call them on the phone. As they “ummm” into their receivers, we can picture them, eyes closed, trying to think of something of comparable size, color, or texture.

“Please, Grammy,” we think. “Just tell me, ‘This much macaroni, this much cheese, this much milk. First do this, then this, then this.’”

Grammy says, “It’s just a little bit of this, a dash of that. Do it until it looks like pancake batter. Maybe a little bit thicker.”

Our elders tell us to just go do it. Do what feels right. It seems as if they trust us more than we trust ourselves.

We hunt for recipes, calling around in search of precise measurements and methods. All we can remember is the way it looked on our plates. The taste. The memory we had the last time we had it.

“What were you doing all that time when I was cooking?”

We complain that we were stuck peeling potatoes, but then we hear Grammy’s smile.

“How many potatoes did you peel?”

It all comes back. We know how many potatoes will feed our household. We remember what the mountain of grated cheese looked like. We weren’t paying attention when the chicken was being seasoned, but we remember what it looked like going into the oven. We can determine how many sprigs of rosemary went into it.

We can remember the color of the seasonings and the taste, so we can figure it out by sight and smell as we go.

Black cooking builds community

Black elders don’t give recipes. They give us so much more. Their menus are secure in our memories. The smell of their kitchens never leaves us. They help us develop the skills and speed that make prep work a breeze.

Now that we’re adults, Black elders give us the freedom to explore on our own, with years of guidance and delicious food as our foundation.

We learn that food isn’t just science. It’s an art. It doesn’t just create feelings, it comes from feeling.

We joke about sprinkling ingredients “until the ancestors say, ‘Stop,’” but that is real. We learn to follow our intuition, be creative, and make every meal an experience, from preparation to post-dessert relaxation.

Black cooking is community building. Black meals are communal. Black creativity is a daily practice that turns nostalgia into the making of new memories.

Alicia Wallace

Alicia A. Wallace is a queer Black feminist, women’s human rights defender, and writer. She’s passionate about social justice and community building. She enjoys cooking, baking, gardening, traveling, and talking to everyone and no one at the same time on Twitter.

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How to Create a Healthy Soul Food Plate — Guide and Recipes

Soul food is the traditional cuisine of African Americans (1Trusted Source).

Sometimes simply referred to as “Southern food,” soul food was carried to the North and rest of the United States by African Americans leaving the South during the Great Migration of the early to mid-20th century.

Meals range from simple family dinners of rice and beans, fried chicken, and collard greens with ham hocks to tables loaded with candied yams, smothered pork chops, gumbo, black-eyed peas, macaroni and cheese, cornbread, sweet potato pie, and peach cobbler.

Soul food is an integral part of Black food culture and often evokes strong feelings of home, family, and togetherness.

This article explains the basics of soul food, explores whether it’s healthy, and provides simple tips to boost the nutrition of soul food dishes.

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Is soul food healthy?

The Southern diet, which is often associated with soul food, contains organ meats, processed meats, eggs, fried foods, added fats, and sweetened beverages.

This eating pattern is tied to an increased risk of heart disease, diabetes, kidney disease, cancer, stroke, and mental decline (2Trusted Source3Trusted Source).

According to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), African Americans ages 18–49 are twice as likely to die from heart disease as white Americans. Black Americans ages 35–54 also have a 50% higher likelihood of high blood pressure than white Americans (4Trusted Source).

While social and economic disparities play a significant role in these disproportionate disease rates, dietary choices may also contribute.

However, this doesn’t mean that all soul food is unhealthy. Nutrient-rich dishes and leafy green vegetables are also staples of soul food.

SUMMARYMany items commonly associated with soul food are linked to an increased risk of several illnesses, including heart disease. Yet, soul food can be made much healthier by emphasizing the tradition’s nutritious dishes.

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A guide to maintaining food culture while promoting health

Soul food embodies numerous legacies, traditions, and practices passed down from generation to generation.

Creating a healthier soul food plate does not mean abandoning this rich heritage.

In fact, making small modifications to recipes and cooking methods may help boost dishes’ nutrient profiles while maintaining flavor, richness, and cultural traditions.

Choose more plant-based foods

Traditional African diets are plant-based and included a wide variety of fruits and vegetables, such as leafy greens, okra, watermelon, whole grains, and black-eyed peas (5Trusted Source6).

In traditional societies, meat — when consumed at all — was eaten in very small quantities and often as a seasoning (7).

Diets that include plenty of plant foods are associated with more moderate body weights and decreased disease risk (5Trusted Source).

Furthermore, a meta-analysis in people who ate leafy green and cruciferous vegetables, such as collard greens, kale, turnip greens, and cabbage, indicated a 15.8% reduced risk of heart disease, compared with a control group (8Trusted Source).

Tips to increase your intake of plant foods

  • Make sure half of your plate comprises non-starchy vegetables, such as greens, eggplant, okra, carrots, tomatoes, cucumbers, and turnips.
  • Swap out meat for legumes, nuts, or seeds as your main protein source. Examples of these plant foods include lentils, beans, peanuts, and black-eyed peas.
  • Diversify your diet by eating roots and tubers, such as sweet potato, taro, plantain, and pumpkin.
  • Snack on raw veggies, nuts, and seeds instead of high fat, high sugar options like chips and cookies.
  • Aim for at least two colorful plant-based foods on each plate — for example, collard greens and roasted pumpkin or an apple with a handful of nuts.

Favor whole grains

The U.S. Department of Agriculture (USDA) recommends that people make at least half of the grains they eat whole grains (9Trusted Source).

Whole grains are the entire grain, including the bran, germ, and endosperm. They may play a role in weight management, gut health, and the prevention of type 2 diabetes, heart disease, and even colorectal, pancreatic, and stomach cancers (10).

Examples of whole grains are whole wheat, brown rice, oats, sorghum, millet, fonio, and barley.

Some soul food entrées like macaroni and cheese, cornbread, and rice dishes are made from refined grains, which have had their nutrient-dense bran and germ removed during processing and are thus not as nutritious as their whole grain counterparts.

Tips to enjoy more whole grains

  • Replace refined grains with their whole grain counterparts. For example, choose whole wheat flour instead of white flour or whole grain cornmeal instead of degerminated.
  • Use brown rice, sorghum, millet, or fonio in place of white rice.
  • When baking, swap refined flour with whole grain flours like teff, whole wheat, and sorghum flours.
  • Choose packaged foods in which whole grains are the first or second item on the ingredient list.

Season with veggies, herbs, and spices

In addition to containing high sodium processed meats like ham hocks, soul food often uses seasoned salt, garlic salt, and cajun seasoning. These foods and spices contribute to the overall amount of sodium you consume.

Excessive sodium intake is associated with an increased risk of high blood pressure, stroke, heart disease, and premature death (11,Trusted Source 12Trusted Source).

Evidence suggests that African Americans are more sensitive to the blood-pressure-lowering effects of decreased salt intake. Reducing your dietary sodium intake may result in a 4–8 mmHg reduction in systolic blood pressure — the top number on a reading (11Trusted Source).

Seasoning foods with aromatic veggies like onions, garlic, and celery, as well as herbs and spices, not only reduces sodium content but also boosts the antioxidant content and flavor (13Trusted Source).

Tips to replace salt

  • Experiment with bold, low sodium spices, such as Ethiopian berbere or Tunisian harissa.
  • Use herbs and spices instead of salt. Add fresh herbs toward the end of cooking and dry herbs at the start.
  • Buy fresh, frozen, or salt-free canned vegetables, or rinse high sodium canned vegetables before using.
  • Avoid salting your meal at the table, especially before tasting it.
  • Make your own seasoning blend by mixing:
    • 2 tablespoons (14 grams) of black pepper
    • 1 tablespoon (5.5 grams) of cayenne pepper
    • 1 tablespoon (7 grams) of paprika
    • 1 tablespoon (6 grams) of onion powder
    • 1 tablespoon (10 grams) of garlic powder
    • 1 ground bay leaf

Change your cooking methods

Cooking methods affect both the nutrient composition of a meal and disease risk.

Observational studies in postmenopausal women associate fried foods like fried chicken, fried fish, and fried potatoes with a higher risk of all-cause and heart-related mortality (14Trusted Source).

High heat cooking methods, such as frying, baking, roasting, and grilling, may introduce chemicals like acrylamide heterocyclic amines (HCAs) and polycyclic aromatic hydrocarbons (PAHs) (1516Trusted Source17Trusted Source).

HCAs and PAHs are associated with an increased risk of cancer. They may also increase diabetes risk (17Trusted Source18Trusted Source).

While boiling and stewing are healthy alternatives for cooking meats, grains, and vegetables, they may result in a loss of nutrients like vitamin C, lutein, and beta carotene (19Trusted Source).

If you opt for boiling or stewing, you can still glean some of the lost nutrients by adding the nutrient-rich liquid — or potlikker — into other dishes.

Tips for healthy cooking methods

  • Trim away any visible fat and remove any charred parts of foods before eating.
  • When cooking starchy foods, aim for a golden brown color rather than a dark brown color or heavily crisped exterior.
  • Marinate meats in citrus fruits or juices, vinegar, or onions, herbs, and spices.
  • Steam, sauté, stir-fry, or blanch vegetables instead of frying them.
  • If you stew vegetables, use the nutrient-rich, leftover potlikker as a gravy or dipping sauce for cornbread. You can also incorporate this liquid into other dishes.
  • Precook meats in the microwave and finish them on the grill.
  • Ditch the deep fryer and recreate favorite recipes by oven-frying or using an air fryer.
  • If you must deep-fry foods, choose an oil with a high smoke point, such as canola, peanut, or avocado oil.

Make healthy swaps

Modifying recipes by substituting healthier ingredients for high fat, high calorie, high sodium options is an effective way to honor family traditions without giving up on flavor.

Simple swap ideas

  • Choose heart-healthy oils like olive, peanut, or canola oils instead of solid fats, such as lard, which are high in saturated fat.
  • Opt for reduced fat cheese and reduced fat or nonfat milk instead of full fat cheeses and milk.
  • In greens and other dishes, replace high sodium, high fat meats like ham hocks with smoked, skinless turkey breast.
  • Ditch the marshmallows or brown sugar on yams for cinnamon, vanilla, or a splash of orange juice.
  • Marinate meats and poultry in herbs and spices instead of smothering them in gravy.
  • Lighten mayonnaise by mixing half of it with plain nonfat Greek yogurt.
  • Substitute lard or butter in baked desserts with fruit purées like applesauce.

Food is deeply intertwined with celebration, family, emotion, legacy, and identity.

On occasion, give yourself permission to enjoy your favorite dishes.

In situations with multiple favorite dishes, watch your portion sizes. A good rule of thumb is to make non-starchy veggies half of your plate, starches a quarter of your plate, and protein sources the last quarter of your plate.

SUMMARYYou can increase the nutrient content of soul food by favoring nutrient-rich dishes, swapping out unhealthy ingredients for healthy ones, choosing cooking methods other than frying, cutting back on salt, and eating more whole grains and plant foods.

Recipes to try

If you’re interested in diversifying your soul food plate, check out this recipe bookletTrusted Source from the National Institutes of Health (NIH). It includes heart-healthy recipes for veggie stew, chicken gumbo, smothered greens, cornbread, sweet potato pie, macaroni and cheese, and more.

SUMMARYNutrient-rich versions of most soul foods exist. Check out a few of the links above to get started on zesty, flavorful dishes that are low in calories and sugar.

The bottom line

Traditional African American cuisine, also called soul food, embodies numerous cultural legacies and is known for being rich and flavorful.

While certain soul food items are high in fat, sodium, and added sugar, numerous other dishes are packed with nutrient-dense foods like leafy greens and legumes. Thus, it’s easy to make a nourishing soul food plate by focusing on certain dishes over others.

Furthermore, adjusting your cooking methods and making ingredient swaps can make your favorite soul food dishes all the healthier.

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